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TIME DOES NOT HEAL ALL WOUNDS

LOSS LEAVES YOU SHATTERED;  LEARN HOW TO PICK UP YOUR BROKEN PIECES AND CREATE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE.

You don't have to walk this road alone. Have someone in your corner that knows the way -

we are your people. Lean into us; we'll lead the way. 

My passion is helping people through the gap of transition - going from where you find yourself today and arriving to the life you truly desire. My programs and philosophies are developed from the streets of real-life experience. I developed a system, strategy, and playbook after having to pick up the pieces after losing my husband during a grueling fifteen month leukemia battle. Myself and our team of Grief and Loss Coaches have now used these systems and strategies to impact people across the country and now reaching and lifting people up from around the world. 

 

If you have experienced a tragic loss, you have reached a spot of transition in your life. An important moment that defines who you will be as you step into your next chapter and determines the quality of how you will live the remainder of your days on this earth. Living an extraordinary life after devastating loss will require intentional action - clarity of exactly what you want, an actual plan to get there, discovering what is holding you back, and accountability to the results. You will learn the importance of the "the gap" and the significant impact this will have on you as we begin a relentless pursuit of the other side and the accomplishment of closing that gap. You have taken a big step to be here reading this, ready to conquer what most will not be brave enough to pursue .. stop allowing what life has handed you to control and define you. Go from merely existing to really living again. 

I arrived to transition and had to face my gap after my husband's death. It was my moment and I had 2 choices:

  • Live with a cloud over my head, allow the sadness to consume me; and let what happened to our family define our future. 

  • Push for the greatness in life we always pursued; find purpose and significance for the next chapter of my life and live it ferociously and boldly.

Honestly, there were days I didn’t want to. It was so much easier to lay on the couch and cry because of what happened TO ME than to build the life I desired FOR US.

But that fire of love for Jon, our daughters, and for my own life wouldn’t let me stay on the couch.

It woke me up at night with dreams of a joyful family unit again. It sparked a desire my purpose to be re-awakened. It made me BOLD. Bold to speak up for what I wanted for my life; because I realized how fleeting time is. Bold to go after love again when it presented. Bold to know what is best for us and not allow the opinions of those around me control my decisions. BOLD. Bold to Impact lives and use the very painful journey we lived to inspire and encourage others. Bold to take the heart that Jon and I had for people - and give it to those people.

This is also where I broke free of my limiting belief - the conflict between what I wanted for my girls & I and what I really believed we could have. I found myself driven by fear, uncertainty, limiting beliefs, a need to please those around me, and a comfort zone.

We encourage you to sign up for a free coaching session to experience how we help.

 The journey between where you are today and where you want to be can begin with this COMPLIMENTARY 30 MINUTE GRIEF COACHING SESSION

You can honor your loss AND get hope for your future. Dream again; and let's make that life a reality. 
  • Heal your hurt & start moving forward

  • Identify what exactly YOU want in your next chapter

  • Create personal and/or professional action plans

  • Avoid compromise in your need/search for companionship

  • Work to overcome your fear of change

  • Processing the guilt 

  • Increase confidence knowing that you're moving in the right direction & making decisions to achieve best outcome

  • Boost your everyday mental attitude & emotional strength

  • Find your passion about life and work again

  • Define and work towards financial independence

  • Become the very best version of yourself in every area of your life

  • Build out a friend network that enhances your quality of life

  • and so much more ...

WIDOWED AND READY TO DATE AGAIN? NOW WHAT? AND WHEN...
EACH JOURNEY OF GRIEF IS UNIQUE... HOW CAN WE SUPPORT YOU?  
  • How to know if you're ready to date again

  • Develop a plan to be the best version of yourself. BE what you want to attract

  • Have complete & absolute clarity on your ideal mate

  • Pull someone in rather than pushing them away

  • Keeping good emotional boundaries while "getting back out there"

  • Are you dating to marry?

  • How to pick someone to be in that mother / father role

  • Navigating the dating waters and selecting the right online platform for you

  • Write a powerful profile that is both captivating & honest

  • Do's and Don'ts for your first date 

  • Learn how to show up and be present & communicate more effectively without "dumping"

GET ON THE PATH TO CLOSING YOUR GAP

We connect with our clients each week for one hour either in person or virtually. Clients leverage our coaching in two settings: one-on-one or in one of our groups with like-minded peers who have faced the same road as you and are moving to their victory with team support. 

When I was in the gap and looking for support my two choices were: coordinate childcare on a Monday night - finish baths, dinner, homework, etc.. early so I could drive nearly 60 miles to a support group where we talked about how much our loss hurt, all the ways we were fumbling around doing life without our spouses, an open forum session where one could talk and find validation and be heard;  the other option being one that was about half the distance but the same struggles getting there with two little ones at home. I literally paid $15 for supplies, we watched a series of videos on an old television, said a prayer and got a pat on the back as we left if we read our book and answered our questions that week.

With this being my experience and struggle when I desperately needed the community, it was imperative that I developed a program that was effective virtually - their antiquated systems totally overlooked technology and the fact that state-of-the-art video conferencing is now available; which would allow a mom with kids (or anyone for that matter) to attend at their convenience and with no compromise on the results. Meeting virtually has allowed us to do one-on-one coaching regardless of your location and to draw in people from all across the globe to create the best group dynamics by personality and chapters of life in our groups. At the end of the day, this is about getting results and lasting change; finding hope and healing while moving forward into the great things that life has for you! 

These aren't counseling sessions. We will offer support and a platform for you to openly express and work through your grief, but only while we hold you accountable to results as we work through your playbook to achieve the life that you desire after your tragedy. We are unlike you have seen in the grief support network

.. we have literally shaken the foundations of the traditional approach to life after loss / transition.

If committing to coaching seems like too much right now, let's chat.

IF YOU FEEL OVERWHELMED OR WEIGHED DOWN - LIKE YOU MAY NEED SOME GUIDANCE OR MUST GET HELP, BUT SIGNING UP FOR COACHING SEEMS LIKE TOO MUCH RIGHT NOW, I GET IT. GRAB A CUP OF COFFEE AND JOIN ME FOR A QUICK 15 MINUTE CHAT. I WANT TO HEAR YOUR STORY AND UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU'RE AT; I'LL EXPLAIN HOW WE'RE SUPPORTING OTHERS JUST LIKE YOU.  

FACE TO FACE SESSIONS

Meeting in person can sometimes offer advantages over virtual coaching, but is limited to those in the Naples, Florida area. We offer travel packages and do on-site coaching and onboarding for an additional fee.

VIDEOCONFERENCE SESSIONS

We use  state of the art video conferencing, making location not an issue. You'll be able to join from your safe, private, convenient place by computer or smart phone. All you need is an internet connection. 

TELEPHONE SESSIONS

Video conferencing is ideal for face-to-face connections and strategizing during our sessions, but we understand that life is busy. Sometimes it is necessary to receive support through a phone session.

INTERACTIVE

ON-THE-GO SUPPORT

Interactive support includes  unlimited email and text exchanges with your coach (as available), access to your group's private social platform for communicating and doing life with your tribe throughout week, and an online resource center.